Number One Rule

According to Kelly Simpson, founder of Just the Facts, "the number one rule of solving problems is to only discuss ONE issue at a time. Or else, the listener may feel attacked and the problem won't get solved." This is good advice but often hard to do. Instead of throwing a lot of issues at your partner at once, you should think about the issue at hand and address that one issue. You know your partner is not trying to hurt your feelings, so assume goodwill and know that the two of you can resolve the issue if you take turns talking and listening about that particular issue. Constructive communication is key to a healthy relationship. Learn to work together to solve your problems. Remember, ONE issue at a time.