Money Matters

Budgeting should be a priority in the marriage. It is important that both parties are aware of how much money they have and what goes to what expense each month. If the couple is not on the same page, this could cause problems. If one partner is left in the dark, money could be spent elsewhere without their being aware of where the money was actually needed. Money is one of the main topics of argument for married couples, but this could be avoided as long as the two communicate and budget--separating their needs from their wants. When it comes to controlling money as a team, "Money should belong to both partners, not just to the one with the bigger paycheck. Resentment can build in the relationship if people do not treat each other respectfully about money. While money cannot buy happiness, having loving relationships can." *From Just the Facts.